Actually need unbiased advice..

[MohaveJoe957]

I have been married 35 years. My wife has become physically and psychologically unable to engage in sex as a consentual or mutually desired partener. I love her. I can't and won't abandon her we still need each other in so many other ways. However, I am just into my 60's, can hang with the 40 year olds, usually, and still at times act like a 14 year old. We haven't had any physical intimacy in well over a year and I am starting to feel guilty for feeling "The Need"...Help? Advice? Thanks and Much love

 

[CinderFucnRella]

Don't feel guilty for having a normal human desire for intimacy. I admire you for not jumping on bandwagon and saying well I will get it somewhere else. The only advice I can give is try to express to her your feelings or go to counseling.

 

[Lukev88]

I agree with Nikki I’m in the middle of divorce, amicable but no intimacy at all. Be honest with your significant other see where it goes